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Question: So this guy and I have been dating for about 3 months. At first everything was great, but now I’m noticing more and more character flaws:
-Tells me he’s going to do all of these things, but then never does them
- Tells me he likes me and that I’m the best thing that’s ever happened to him.
- Tells me how much he misses me everyday, and when I’m home (it’s a long distance relationship), he hardly makes an effort to see me.
- Says he’ll call in 40 mins, but then calss like 3 hours later
- If we’re having a problem, he won’t try to talk about it until like 4 days later, which is infuriating.
-Tells me he’s going to do all of these things, but then never does them
- Tells me he likes me and that I’m the best thing that’s ever happened to him.
- Tells me how much he misses me everyday, and when I’m home (it’s a long distance relationship), he hardly makes an effort to see me.
- Says he’ll call in 40 mins, but then calss like 3 hours later
- If we’re having a problem, he won’t try to talk about it until like 4 days later, which is infuriating.
Also, he told me he didn’t talk to his ex at all, and I found out from his myspace that he saw her two days ago. When I asked him, he said that she was visiting cause his grandma was sick. but he still left that detail out.
I know his heart is (or may be) in the right place, but I think I’m going to break it off. What do you guys think?
Answer: he sounds flaky. i dated a guy like that once, and it was very annoying. maybe hes just not ready to be in a committed realtionsip. maybe he means well but is just too lazy or self absorbed to make the effort. blowing off problems is bad sign too. he sounds really immature. if you think you should dump him, maybe you should.
i think you’re doing the right thing. find someone who will appreciate you and your time.
It’s up to you to make that choice if you’re not happy.
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If you don’t feel comfortable with being with him, you can either talk to him about the whole thing or just cut your losses and break it off with him. It’s all up to you what you really want to do. Best of luck.
if you like someone you cant trust then keep him but youknow what you should do let him be somebodys else problem
i think you should dump him. He doesnt commit all the way to you like a boyfriend should. If he is still seeing his ex, then they might start something together again. I dont think that your relationship will last with him for long. He might even break up with you for his ex. He is lying to you which is a really bad thing in a relationship because if a bf lies then he could be doing something behind your back.
Dump that asshole.
hope i helped.