Another dating question has come in this week. Let’s tackle it straight away:
Question: See I met this guy on myspace, that turns out to be a friend of my best friend. She said he was very nice, and even called him to let me talk to him. Well last friday I met him in person. See we talked before but only on myspace. So i guess you could say that it was a blind date. Well I thought we hit it off pretty good. But I could not tell what he felt. I mean we talked, we walked together and everything. Then on saturday my sister and I called him and talked to him. He seemed to have had a good time the other night. And since when i first talked to him he barely said a word, and saturday he said alot. Well we sent him two text messages, and he never responded to any of them.
I am confused. What are some signs to show that he may have been interested????what do you get from what I wrote at the top??
Answer: Give it a little time — some guys aren't that into texting, so maybe drop him a note via myspace and tell him you had a good time, and would like to catch up again.
If he doesn't respond to that… in a reasonable timeframe… I'd begin to think maybe he's not very interested.
He does sound shy though - given it took him a while to open up - so I would allow for that by easing him into the whole thing, and giving him time to process.
I think that you should meet him, and see you if you mesh well together. If you don't you didn't loose anything!!!
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are you sure he has texts?
What were the text? You probably shouldn't of called him with your sister if he was a quiet type. Probably made him feel like he was put on the spot, and maybe put off.
Hang in there for a little while. He may be shy but if you are nothing but a convenience to him when he has nothing better to do, that will become very obvious with time. That will be when you kick him to the curb.r
could be worse
I think that since your friend thought you and myspace guy would get along that's a good sign. I don't think she waould try to set you up with a guy that wasn't good for you.
I think that it might still be too early to tell. If you're calling and texting him maybe he's not interested but maybe he's just busy. I think you should let him be alone for a while.
When he's got time he'll call you and if he doesn't then you can simply let it go without being clingy or desperate.
he never responded to your texts?
Hm don't run after him, don't text him anymore.
Ask your friend to talk to him and see what he tells her.
Just don't run after him if he isn't even making any effort.
Even if he is shy, he should at least answer to your messages.
To me that is a sign of no interest.
Good luck
It's easier to talk to someone when you are texting or messaging. Or maybe he is just rude. regardless don't worry about it. Stop talking to him and make him wonder a bit like you are. A boy who ignores a girl after meeting them in person doesn't deserved to be missed. It just means he's very superficial.
Difficult to say. I would not send any more texts and see if he texts back after a day or 2, you've done what you can, If he's interested he will text back or try to get in contact with you. I wouldn't send too many messages cos it might end up putting him off.
You are moving to fast for him. Back off and let him make the next move. Also, ask your friend to talk to him. Warning: He may not say what you want to hear.
I've been seeing this guy for 5 months and he still isn't ready to commit.
whoa look you just met this guy so slow down maybe at this point he just sees you as an accquintance so just keep on doing the same things you were doing at first
i think u shud call him again and be straight 2 him abt all d ques u hav in ur mind and ask wat he thinks abt. ur frendship ….even ask abt y he did nt answer d text messages…den think and c his way of talkin and his answers…if u think u both can make it den call him somewer and keep meetin and knowin each other till he does nt. propose u….best of luck..tc