Well here’s a question I just had to answering straight away:
Question: Well I found out today that this girl likes me and I like her to. I would like to hang out with her but I want to take this slow. What shouldent I do and should I do with her. Can u girls give me any advice in general? She knows I play guitar and she sings any ideas on how to have her to be my girlfriend insted of having her just like me? Thank you
P.S I please help me I’m sorts new to this
Answer: Take it slow. Flirty texting, casual dates to get coffee, walks in the park are all good ways to start things off. Here’s a tip, if it’s ever cold out, give her your jacket without hesitation (works better if you wear a specific cologne, may consider getting one), let her keep it for the evening. She’ll take it home, smell it, and think about you. My boyfriend did this with me when we started talking, and believe me, it certainly works. I also suggest making a bit of contact other than hugging. Tickling works, if she’s ticklish, and you can always pick her up gently and just play around with her. Don’t make things awkward by trying to throw your arm around her right away. Take her to a movie after all this, play handsies with her and just continue seeing her often. Text her good morning to let her know you’re thinking of her when you wake up. It gets her to think about you when she wakes up as well. Text her good night too. Invite her out for lunch and for ice cream. Later, when you’re bold enough and ready, tell her you really like her and then ask her to be your girlfriend. You can do it in a romantic way by playing a song for her or something since you’re into guitar. It’s that easy.
Try to find what you two have in common and build a steady relationship and then start to hang out more and more frequently then move on to dates
start by texting and flirting. but don’t seem to desperate. and then eventually ask her if she wants to hang out. start going to the movies with her and stuff. then if everything works out well, ask her out.
First I would ask her to a movie. Then after that I’d start saying flirty comments like hey cutie, or whats up babe. To show her your interested. Then ask her out.
why don’t u just ask her out since the feeling is mutual.
what you should do is talk to her like you normally would, in a friendy way nothing too mushy and maybe ask her to sing/ play something on the guitar, or maybe ask her to give you guitar lesson (only if you are really interested. once you ask her out don’t call her too often, call her a little bit more often than you would with your friends.
don’t freak her out and go overboard and don’t be too desperate with the first kiss… yikes..
so yeah, just have fun relax and be yourself, don’t treat her like a wife or something but be sweet and caring but just don’t over do it
so yeah..
good luck
Personally, if I like a guy, I like to talk/hang out as much as possible; not in a "We’re ALWAYS together" kind of way… But like if you really wanna take things slow, send her a text during the day, to start a conversation like "Hey hows your day going..?" and chat. But don’t do it everyday. Let her text you back first sometimes..and if you cant stop thinking about her, and you havnt talked yet that day, send her a random text that doesnt even need a reply like "Just saw a baby bunny..thought I’d let you know since you like bunnies. :)" Just something to let her know you’re thinking about her.
If you are both musical, and want to get out on a date, try a coffee shop with local musicians. That would be interesting to both of you it sounds like.. Or get together and just jam.
Friends make the best bf/gf’s. Become best friends first, then its time for her to be your girlfriend.
Know what I’m saying?
basically, i dont know how long you have known her for. if you havent known her for a while, ask her normal questions, like what do you like doing, why did you take this job, etc. dont talk to much about the relationship until you know 100% that she wants to hear something. dont ask question that are too personal, or serious. just be yourself, be funny, talk a lot, and listen!!! you can try holding her hand, complementing her just enough. you can also give hints on furthering your relationship, do that at the end by asking her out again, if she agrees, then you’re in, if not, then you’re out :(. make her feel good but not self conscious! goode luck
do small dates, such as going to the movies etc. I personally enjoy the small things like, being that its summer time, go to the beach and have a picnic and build a sand castle.