We’ve had a reader question come in on the subject of dating. Let’s take a look:
The fact that your blind and dont see that he is a jerk who is playing with your feelings and the other girls feelings. Who knows, maybe he is dating a girl with a brain tumor because she is disabled and gets some kind of government money like SSI and he is living of her money. Your so in love with him that you dont want to realize he is a very bad person and he is using both of you and maybe a few more girls and you dont even know it.
You know, people do use others illness for a living and thats called a con artists maybe thats exactly what he is and you dont even know it or see it that way because your to blind in love with him. I would report his @ss and call that other girl and tell her that he is using her for her money to live of her and that he does not love her, he does not love you either or he wont be doing and saying the things he says and does. He is playing with your mind and heart like a ping pong ball. I bet he talks to you with his sorry smooth quilty puppy face saying " Im sorry baby, you know how much I love you and I would never blah blah blah…I just did what I did because I felt lonely because you were blah blah blah" and so on with his fake story.
Im sorry to break this news for you, but Ive been there and Im felt for it a couple of times until I realized he is not worth it and I moved on, now I have an amazing husband and a family that does care about me…hope you find your way out like I did. First step is to wake up and deal with the pain but later on it will be way better and you will love to be happy, not played with.
good luck!
he loves her
I don’t think that the brain cancer has much to do with the matter as far as your husband is concerned. He wanted sex and found a willing female. She, with a medical condition, wanted to feel loved and was willing to trade sex for a supposedly loving feeling - she might have thought that her medical condition precluded any chance of a loving relationship. What want on in the minds of those two people was entirely different. So basically what you need to sort out between yourself and your husband is whether there is any future for you if you continue to live apart, or even if you were to move back to share one house. Men like having sex, and many men don’t see the scale of comittment in having sex that many women see - that’s the way of the world, so you may have to sort out your ideas with that in mind. That may seem sexist and unfair, but it has been reality for many couples for many centuries.
He wants a hooker and this one is available. He thinks you are better but you are not available.