• Mar
  • 07

EX BF, Keeps Getting in Touch, Asking if Im Dating.. Why? (quick Question 10 Points)?

March 7, 2010

What a great dating question:

Question: Im single he is not, he ended it nearly one year ago, doesn’t seem happy in new relationship. He recently started flirting with me, contacting me, he suggests to meet up for coffee a few times, but for some reason doesn’t arrange it. is it quite likely he wants to try again? if so, why hasn’t he.. i reminded him about the coffee once, but nothing. When he asks if im single, i say YES.

I sent them a sweet gift the other week to show i still really care, i got a text reply ‘that was very sweet’ nothing since :(

I would really like to try again!

He just text me to tell me he saw one of my EX’s from years ago, and that they are a ****! what’s this about? he then asked me when we are going for coffee.. what’s the score!!!!???

Answer: - He misses you
- He wants you back , but he isnt sure because he doesn’t know if it will be the same
- He most likely didnt like the way things ended.
- His not replying/contacting you because he has realized that it is a silly thing to do when you are taken

or his girlfriend has found out and doesnt want you talking to him.

Either or
I suggest you stop trying.
it wont get better


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  • Dec
  • 16

Blind Date Questions… Can Someone Help Me Please?

December 16, 2008

Another dating question has come in this week. Let’s tackle it straight away:

Question: See I met this guy on myspace, that turns out to be a friend of my best friend. She said he was very nice, and even called him to let me talk to him. Well last friday I met him in person. See we talked before but only on myspace. So i guess you could say that it was a blind date. Well I thought we hit it off pretty good. But I could not tell what he felt. I mean we talked, we walked together and everything. Then on saturday my sister and I called him and talked to him. He seemed to have had a good time the other night. And since when i first talked to him he barely said a word, and saturday he said alot. Well we sent him two text messages, and he never responded to any of them.

I am confused. What are some signs to show that he may have been interested????what do you get from what I wrote at the top??

Answer: Give it a little time — some guys aren't that into texting, so maybe drop him a note via myspace and tell him you had a good time, and would like to catch up again.

If he doesn't respond to that… in a reasonable timeframe… I'd begin to think maybe he's not very interested.

He does sound shy though - given it took him a while to open up - so I would allow for that by easing him into the whole thing, and giving him time to process.


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  • Dec
  • 10

For the Girls !!! What if Dark Mousy Asked You on a Date ? ?

December 10, 2008

A tough dating question this week. Let’s dive straight in

Question: What would you say ?
Where would you go on your date ?
What would be the best part of the date ?
Answer: i would say yes

anywhere would be fun if dark was there

the best part would be all of it (especailly kiss if there was one)


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  • Dec
  • 07

The Guy I’m Dating is Driving Me Nuts. Should I Dump Him?

December 7, 2008

Keep the dating questions coming! I liked this one:

Question: So this guy and I have been dating for about 3 months. At first everything was great, but now I’m noticing more and more character flaws:
-Tells me he’s going to do all of these things, but then never does them
- Tells me he likes me and that I’m the best thing that’s ever happened to him.
- Tells me how much he misses me everyday, and when I’m home (it’s a long distance relationship), he hardly makes an effort to see me.
- Says he’ll call in 40 mins, but then calss like 3 hours later
- If we’re having a problem, he won’t try to talk about it until like 4 days later, which is infuriating.

Also, he told me he didn’t talk to his ex at all, and I found out from his myspace that he saw her two days ago. When I asked him, he said that she was visiting cause his grandma was sick. but he still left that detail out.

I know his heart is (or may be) in the right place, but I think I’m going to break it off. What do you guys think?

Answer: he sounds flaky. i dated a guy like that once, and it was very annoying. maybe hes just not ready to be in a committed realtionsip. maybe he means well but is just too lazy or self absorbed to make the effort. blowing off problems is bad sign too. he sounds really immature. if you think you should dump him, maybe you should.

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  • Dec
  • 05

To My Fellow Gay and Lesbian Brothers and Sisters…Would You Date a Straight Person for a Week? ?

December 5, 2008

I just love answering these dating questions. Here’s another:

Question: Sorry didnt mean to exclude other sexual orientations…
Tara…that is the nicest thing youve ever said to me. I love you!!!
Answer: Sure, I’d date a straight girl for a week. I’d have to get written permission from my wife though

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